Donna Sheppard

The four stages

Services

Every way of working together is a stage in the same slow garden.

I

Stage I · The Seed

Individual Counselling

for the unspoken

One to one, at your pace. A quiet room where the things you have carried alone can finally be set down and looked at, gently, together.

Sessions are fifty minutes, weekly or fortnightly, in my room in Portstewart. We begin wherever you are — with a feeling you can't name, a loss you haven't spoken of, or simply a sense that something needs to change. I work integratively, drawing on person-centred, psychodynamic and compassion-focused approaches, so the work shapes itself around you rather than the other way round.

What this helps with

AnxietyGriefIdentityLow moodTraumaSelf-worth
What is buried is not lost.
What is buried is not lost.I · The Seed
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Stage II · The Bloom

Online Therapy

for those who can't be in the room

The same care, the same attention, from wherever you are — across Northern Ireland, the UK, or the world. Secure video, at times that fit your life.

For many people, home is where they feel safest to speak. Online sessions run over a secure, encrypted platform and are every bit as deep as working in person. Clients join me from kitchen tables, parked cars and spare rooms; from Belfast, London, Sydney and Toronto. All you need is a quiet corner and a little privacy.

What this helps with

BurnoutTransitionsAnxietyExpat lifeParenthoodStress
Opening, slowly.
Opening, slowly.II · The Bloom
III

Stage III · The Grove

Walk & Talk Therapy

for those who need to move

Side by side along the Portstewart strand and coastal path. Some words come more easily when we are walking, not facing one another.

Walk & Talk sessions take place outdoors along the North Coast — the strand, the cliff path, the woodland at Flowerfield. Movement softens the edges of difficult conversations, and the sea has a way of making room. We agree a route and a plan for privacy beforehand, and we walk at whatever pace feels right. Rain is welcome; the North Coast insists on it.

What this helps with

StressBurnoutGriefFeeling stuckMen's wellbeingTransitions
Light through the canopy.
Light through the canopy.III · The Grove
IV

Stage IV · The Harvest

Couples & Relationship Counselling

for those who share the garden

For partners who have stopped hearing each other. A neutral, warm space to untangle old patterns and remember what you were growing together.

Relationship counselling is not about deciding who is right. It is about understanding the cycle you are both caught in, and finding new ways to reach each other. Sessions are seventy-five minutes, in person or online. I work with couples of every shape — married, unmarried, separating, rebuilding — and with families navigating change.

What this helps with

CommunicationTrustConflictIntimacySeparationRelationships
What we gather, together.
What we gather, together.IV · The Harvest

Questions, gently answered

Before you begin.

If something feels heavy, confusing or stuck, that is reason enough. You don't need a diagnosis or a crisis. Our first conversation is simply a chance to see whether working together feels right.

Hands holding a warm cup of tea in dappled light

Wherever you begin

The kettle is on. The chair is waiting. There is no wrong way in.

If something feels heavy, that's enough of a reason to reach out.

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